Add more kafka dev service tests

[holly-cummins]

I've added more test coverage for Kafka dev services. Three of the tests don't pass, but should pass once #47627 is implemented. In the meantime I've @Disabled them.

I also moved a port checking utility into a common location.

@ozangunalp and @cescoffier, do we have tests for the Kafka container re-use and shared networking and so on? I couldn't spot them, but I didn't really know what I was looking for. I assumed they were there, so I didn't add any, but it seems like an area at risk of regression when implementing #47627, so we will want the protection of tests.

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• Stream has no elements - java.lang.IllegalArgumentException

java.lang.IllegalArgumentException: Stream has no elements
	at io.quarkus.micrometer.opentelemetry.deployment.common.MetricDataFilter.lambda$lastReading$2(MetricDataFilter.java:213)
	at java.base/java.util.Optional.orElseThrow(Optional.java:403)
	at io.quarkus.micrometer.opentelemetry.deployment.common.MetricDataFilter.lastReading(MetricDataFilter.java:213)
	at io.quarkus.micrometer.opentelemetry.deployment.common.MetricDataFilter.lastReadingDataPoint(MetricDataFilter.java:231)
	at io.quarkus.micrometer.opentelemetry.deployment.compatibility.MicrometerTimedInterceptorTest.testTimeMethod(MicrometerTimedInterceptorTest.java:77)
	at java.base/java.lang.reflect.Method.invoke(Method.java:569)
	at io.quarkus.test.QuarkusUnitTest.runExtensionMethod(QuarkusUnitTest.java:521)