Kafka dev services should not be started in augmentation phase

[holly-cummins]

See reproducer from @vonatzigenc (thanks!): https://github.com/vonatzigenc/reproducer-quarkus-testpofiles-3220

[quarkus-bot]

/cc @alesj (kafka), @cescoffier (kafka), @geoand (devservices), @ozangunalp (kafka)