[Python] Add support for Python 3.9 windows wheels

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Reporter: Terence Honles / @terencehonles
Assignee: Krisztian Szucs / @kszucs

Related issues:

• [Python] Add support for Python 3.9 except macOS wheel and Windows wheel (is related to)

PRs and other links:

• GitHub Pull Request #8916

_{Note: This issue was originally created as ARROW-10905. Please see the migration documentation for further details.}

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Terence Honles / @terencehonles:
Broken out of ARROW-10224. Windows wheels were blocking the original PR and updates to fix wheels on master may unblock this .

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Krisztian Szucs / @kszucs:
Resolved by #9096