[Bugfix][CI] Update ModelRunnerOutput Params to Sync Upstream Changes

[shen-shanshan]

What this PR does / why we need it?

Update ModelRunnerOutput construct params to sync upstream changes.

The param finished_sending and finished_recving was already deprecated when initializing ModelRunnerOutput.

Plus, more updates are needed for kv_connector related code, this PR is just to make sure the basic offline inference can work well.

Does this PR introduce any user-facing change?

How was this patch tested?

• vLLM version: v0.10.0
• vLLM main: vllm-project/vllm@c2e75b3

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[wangxiyuan]

review this one instead #2181