fix(tls) fix ciphers

[cirospaciari]

What does this PR do?

Uses same ciphers than node.js for compatibility and do the same error checking on empty ciphers
Fixes #9425
Fixes #21518
Fixes #19859
Fixes #18980

You can see more about redis ciphers here https://redis.io/docs/latest/operate/rs/security/encryption/tls/ciphers/ this should fix redis related ciphers issues

How did you verify your code works?

Tests

[robobun]

^{Updated 4:09 PM PT - Aug 4th, 2025}

❌ @cirospaciari, your commit 3caf845 has 5 failures in Build #22185:

• test/js/bun/shell/shell-load.test.ts - 1 failing on 🍎 13 aarch64
• test/js/web/fetch/fetch.tls.test.ts - 2 failing on 🍎 14 aarch64
• test/js/third_party/next-auth/next-auth.test.ts - 1 failing on 🪟 2019 x64-baseline
• test/js/node/test/parallel/test-child-process-spawnsync-shell.js - timeout on 🪟 2019 x64-baseline
• test/js/node/test/parallel/test-child-process-spawnsync-shell.js - timeout on 🪟 2019 x64
• test/integration/next-pages/test/dev-server-ssr-100.test.ts - 1 failing on 🪟 2019 x64-baseline

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🧪   To try this PR locally:

bunx bun-pr 21545

That installs a local version of the PR into your bun-21545 executable, so you can run:

bun-21545 --bun

[devcaeg]

Is this PR merged into Bun v1.2.0? Since in my case it has not solved the connection problem.