chore: refactor workflows

[Uzlopak]

Fixes #4484
Nightly tests use EOL Node 23, which has no sqlite, nightly now points to node 25 nightly
CodeCov was broken, because wf was generating LCOV information in node 20 but was sending reports in node 22 run

It was always confusing that the ci was in nodejs.yml and the test.yml was the actual reusable workflow. Renamed it.

Workflows for release and other "meta" workflows now use node lts

Unified the name for node-version inputs.
One liners for matrix values seem to be better for managing them.

Checkout Action now uses persists-credentials explicitly set to true or false

Additional information about the built-in deps of nodejs is printed
Using commit hashes for actions

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Codecov Report

✅ All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests.
✅ Project coverage is 93.53%. Comparing base (e23167b) to head (3ddcb02).
⚠️ Report is 2 commits behind head on main.

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+ Coverage      0   93.53%   +93.53%     
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  Files         0      103      +103     
  Lines         0    32349    +32349     
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+ Hits          0    30257    +30257     
- Misses        0     2092     +2092     

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[Uzlopak]

@metcoder95 PTAL