[Feature Request] Make OrtValue compatible with numpy `__array__` and dlpack protocols

[justinchuby]

Describe the feature request

For a pythonic type conversion and data sharing user experience.

Describe scenario use case

DLPack has been enabled in #23110.

1. We should expose it in the onnxruntime.OrtValue class and allow from_dlpack to call __dlpack__ on source tensors automatically.
2. We should remove the is_bool argument by upgrading dlpack version.

Similarly, we should also implement https://numpy.org/devdocs/user/basics.interoperability.html to modernize the class.

cc @snnn @xadupre @baijumeswani

[xadupre]

I think my answer from #24095 would be useful here as well.

[snnn]

I am rewriting the whole pybind code . This will be a byproduct of the refactoring.