fix CI issues related to moving dependencies

[Klaim]

Description

API changes in pybind11 v3.0.0 breaks the CI. We didnt plan that change so we restrict mamba's build to use the previous versions.

Type of Change

• Bugfix
• Feature / enhancement
• CI / Documentation
• Maintenance

Checklist

• My code follows the general style and conventions of the codebase, ensuring consistency
• I have performed a self-review of my code
• I have commented my code, particularly in hard-to-understand areas
• My changes generate no new warnings
• I have run pre-commit run --all locally in the source folder and confirmed that there are no linter errors.
• I have added tests that prove my fix is effective or that my feature works
• New and existing tests pass locally with my changes

[JohanMabille]

Do we still need it in the preset if it is always set in the CMakeLists.txt file?

[Klaim]

The CI was passing withtout that change, I didnt try it yet after removing the explicit link to xmllite.lib which I find weird. It makes sense as a system-provided library, but libarchive already has it's own way of using it (see there) but enabling it in our mamba cmake file is not enough to make this work apparently.
Not sure what's best.

[Klaim]

I added some clarification of the context, with a TODO note.