Bump Detox to 9.x

[filipengberg]

Fixes #21539

Ran npm test-ios-e2e and all tests are passing after upgrade.

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[kelset]

Closing since we are already importing #21570 (we submitted the PRs basically at the same time 😅 - thanks anyway!)