Replace minimatch with picomatch

[beeequeue]

This PR replaces minimatch with picomatch as asked about in #171.

picomatch is at worst twice as fast, and at best magnitudes faster than minimatch, while also being 1/4th the size on disk.

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Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 96.14%. Comparing base (b8d3ded) to head (74201f5).
Report is 41 commits behind head on master.

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  Files          35       35              
  Lines        2142     2126      -16     
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- Hits         2055     2044      -11     
+ Misses         87       82       -5     

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[bcomnes]

LGTM thank you @beeequeue