[C++] Add more configuration options to arrow::EqualOptions

[andishgar]

Describe the enhancement requested

As mentioned here, additional options should be added to arrow::EqualOptions to support comparison of arrow::Schema and metadata in arrow::Table and arrow::RecordBatch

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C++

[pitrou]

Sounds like a good idea to me.

[kou]

Issue resolved by pull request 47204
#47204