[C++] replace_with_mask support missing for list/fixed_size_list/large_list/struct

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The replace_with_mask kernel should work for any value type. However, support is currently missing for:

• list
• fixed_size_list
• large_list
• struct

Reporter: Weston Pace / @westonpace

Related issues:

• [C++] Improve type support for 'replace_with_mask' kernel (is duplicated by)
• [C++] Reconcile type promotion rules between if_else, case_when, coalesce, select (relates to)
• [C++] Improve type support for 'coalesce' kernel (relates to)

_{Note: This issue was originally created as ARROW-13951. Please see the migration documentation for further details.}