[Doc] add config and troubleshooting guide for NCCL & GPUDirect RDMA

[chewong]

This should help folk troubleshoot better when they encounter the following error:

Error executing method 'init_device'. This might cause deadlock in distributed execution.
Traceback (most recent call last):
...
   File "/usr/local/lib/python3.12/dist-packages/vllm/distributed/device_communicators/pynccl.py", line 99, in __init__
     self.comm: ncclComm_t = self.nccl.ncclCommInitRank(
                             ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
   File "/usr/local/lib/python3.12/dist-packages/vllm/distributed/device_communicators/pynccl_wrapper.py", line 277, in ncclCommInitRank
     self.NCCL_CHECK(self._funcs["ncclCommInitRank"](ctypes.byref(comm),
   File "/usr/local/lib/python3.12/dist-packages/vllm/distributed/device_communicators/pynccl_wrapper.py", line 256, in NCCL_CHECK
     raise RuntimeError(f"NCCL error: {error_str}")
 RuntimeError: NCCL error: unhandled system error (run with NCCL_DEBUG=INFO for details)
...

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[mgoin]

cc @youkaichao

[simon-mo]

Thank you for this PR